Be Yourself! Oh, not like that: A Stunning Story
Be Yourself! Oh, not like that is truly something special.
Written and illustrated by Emilia Strilchuk, this autobiographical comic book explores the challenges and long-term impacts of growing up with undiagnosed autism.
With a universally resonating message, Be Yourself! Oh, not like that exemplifies the high-quality storytelling that can come from small press titles.
Illustrated entirely in black and white, Strilchuk narrates key moments in their life where autistic traits were confused with bad behavior or unwillingness to be positive. As readers follow Strilchuk’s self-questioning and masking of their personality to fit in, the pieces begin to come together on a fateful day when they meet someone who is comfortable talking about their autism.
While this story focuses on Strilchuk’s journey, the themes of personal struggles are familiar—especially in a poignant scene where Strilchuk looks at their younger self with much kinder eyes. This memorable moment invites readers to reflect on their own experiences of self-acceptance and is incredibly emotional. The ability to tell one’s story while discussing depression and angst that many who are misunderstood feel is masterfully pieced together making this comic book an inviting experience, even for those who are unfamiliar with autism.
It’s clear Strilchuk has a knack for writing as they give details on how autism can present itself differently in every person, while also crafting a well-paced and engaging story. Strilchuk’s voice is authentic and approachable, making the entire comic book feel like one big safety blanket. There are many emotional moments and by the end, readers will likely feel a sense of relief with the narrator as they reach clarity about their struggles.
In addition to writing this incredible comic, Strilchuk also illustrates the entire story themselves. From the character designs to the page layouts, their personal touch creates visuals that are both beautiful and heartbreaking.
Strilchuk’s knack for page layouts is excellent as negative space is cleverly used to instill dark and isolating feelings. This not only is visually impressive, but lets the emotions leap off the page and pull readers closer to the drama.
Delightfully illustrated and profoundly vulnerable, this comic book is a raw and honest portrayal of the struggles that come with being misunderstood and the beauty of self-discovery.
For more about Emilia Strilchuk, you can for their site at www.emiliastrilchuk.com.